The answer to the question of loneliness?
Philippians 2-11
Paul’s
answer today will be Gospel partnership or Jesus Centered Friendships; meaning
that Jesus is the center of the relationship between you and someone else.
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This
could be a friend, a parent, or a spouse.
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That
Jesus is between the two of you because sin will come between the two of you
and sin leads to spiritual death, disconnection from God, physical death and
relational death. It separates people.
And
so, Jesus dies to forgive—take away sin. Now, we can have a reconciled
relationship with God and with one another. And so, Gospel is the good news of
the person and work of Jesus, who is our God, who takes away sin and makes
reconciliation possible.
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Gospel
based partnership is that kind of relationship where Jesus is at the center and
he can take away the sin
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it’s
a partnership in that both people agree, “We’re going to do our life together
as Christians.
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What that means is,
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We
will treat one another as God has treated us.
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When
we sin, we will repent We sin against God. He convicts us through the
Scriptures, the Holy Spirit, Christian friends, and we repent. We say, “God,
you’re right. I am wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.” And then, God forgives
us and we’re reconciled. And so, we agree in this Gospel partnership to deal
with sin the way that God, through Jesus, deals with our sin. “When I sin
against you, you feel free to tell me that I’m in sin. And then, I will repent.
And then, you will forgive me. And then, we will be reconciled.” That’s a
Gospel partnership.
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It
only works if both people are willing to commit to it. That’s why you gotta
define these relationships. Sometimes, I think we assume much of our
friendships. We are waiting for them to act in a Christ-like way, but we
haven’t defined whether or not it’s a Gospel partnership.
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It
means,
o We’re both gonna
read our Bible.
o We’re both gonna
walk as Christians.
o We’re both gonna
confess our sins.
o We’re both gonna
forgive one another.
o We’re both gonna let
Jesus be the one who keeps us close.
o Gospel partnership
is like friendship, but it’s much deeper.
The Sermon
Philippians 2-11
Paul is going to
have a number of things to say about Gospel partnership.
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Here
is a guy who should be absolutely depressed.
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Here’s
a guy who should be absolutely without hope.
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He
has nothing that you and I would seek to cure our loneliness.
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He
has no wife.
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No
kids.
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No
grandkids.
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No
home.
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No
hometown.
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No
home church.
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He’s
not in proximity with people. His friends are far away in a town called
Philippi.
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He
has not a lot of affinity with these people. They’re married. He’s single. Many
of them have children. He doesn’t. They are going to work. He’s going to jail. They’re
really at different phases of their life.
And
he writes them a letter, as a friend, and he talks about how much joy he has
because of their Gospel partnership
with him.
Philippians 2-11 (Read)
He’s
sitting in prison, facing death, lonely, hurting, hungry, and broke. He been
beaten, is probably sick, and he writes a letter to his friends. And he opens
with this word to explain to the depth of the relationship that they have in
their Gospel partnership. He opens with this. “Grace to you.”
Verse 2
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Grace
o The best word to
summarize what we believe about God as Christians
o God is not obligated
to us in any way, but he has given grace to us in every way
o Our relationship
with Jesus is absolutely bound by grace
o we are to receive
God’s grace humbly and share it gladly
o God only gives grace
to the repentant
o grace and repentance
are intimately connected
o
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Peace
o Through Grace and
repentance we find peace
o Without repentance we
are at war with God
o We are by our sin
nature, objects of God’s wrath
o Peace in our
relationship with Jesus brings peace in our other relationships
o Without repentance
in all relationships there is no peace (example)
Verse 3
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Remembrance (my
Vision of Paul)
o If you don’t have a
Gospel based partnership that has grace and peace that’s centered in Jesus,
many of your memories are going be painful and bitter.
o You’ll remember
people who sinned against you, and hurt you, and betrayed you, and abandoned
you, and disappointed you, and lied to you, and neglected you, and you’ll be
this angry, bitter person.
o If it’s a Gospel
based partnership, you have the opportunity to redeem those memories and, as
Paul says, thank God for the memories you have, where not only where there was
sin; there was repentance, and there was forgiveness, and there was
reconciliation. There was grace and
there was peace.
Verse 4
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Joy
o He is in prison,
about to die and he speaks of Joy, his joy.
o He writes in
Philippians of joy 14 times
o Joy is not as much
an emotion as it is a lifestyle
o Joy does not mean
Happy
o The Christian art “faking
happiness”
o The Bible says that
we should rejoice with those who rejoice and we should weep and mourn with
those who weep and mourn
o The majority of the
Psalms are songs of lament
o Joy is a lifestyle
that includes sorrow, and grief, and pain, and poverty, and loneliness, and
death.
o joy is a lifestyle
that celebrates the forward progress of the Gospel of Jesus Christ
Verse 5&6
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Gospel centered
partnership
o Our theme
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Verse 6 is all about
Perseverance
o Definition of what a
real Christian is!!
o True Christians
always persevere
o We will stumble
o We will fail, but by
god grace we will be saved
o The fifth point of Calvinism,
“Perseverance of saints”!!
o The reason you can
persevere is that he’s persevering with you
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Verse 7,8, 9, & 10
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Heart, Prayer
o Jesus is both heart
changing for us, and prayer compelling.
o We’ll become more
merciful, and compassionate, and concerned, and more prayerful
o That’s what Gospel
partnership is. It’s prayerful intercession and loving concern for people
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Grace
o I’m not the only
person that God’s giving grace to. He’s giving grace to many of us
o
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Discernment
o It expands our
capacity to love people, and it increases our discernment in regards to who is
trustworthy
o Some of you are to
trusting
o With maturity comes
better discernment
o The devil cam to
Steal, Kill and Destroy. He is the great deceiver
o Gospel centered
partnership takes time to develop
o Love and trust
develop over years
Verse 11
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Righteousness
o The Great Exchange!!
(There is no righteousness apart from Christ Jesus!!)
o Righteousness comes
through Jesus Christ.
o 2 Corinthians
5:21 (ESV) For
our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become
the righteousness of God.